Walk the Walk

I was having a conversation the other day with an over-stressed mother trying to get it all done. She was lamenting that for years they have been trying to cut back at Christmas, but for years she has continued to shop until the budget is blown and the credit is stretched. She is also a woman who is trying to live a more mindful life and will tell you every chance she gets. The conversation ended when she asked me about my Christmas shopping habits. I told her that I too have been trying to cut back which is why I donate to a few charities in honor of various family members and friends. My daughters have always been very happy with whatever was under the tree, no matter the number of packages. And we have often made gifts for grandparents instead of buying them. When she realized that I talk the talk and walk the walk, she really didn't have more to say.

I suggest to all that we reconsider our spending habits this year. Do you really need to buy one more gift for your friend? Do your family members really need to have a tree overflowing with gifts? Wouldn't someone be happier with a gift of your time? Perhaps someone would understand a contribution to charity. It is time to start walking the walk; take the first step this year.